Is God a male or a female?

GENDER OF GODS in GODS' MARKETS

Does God have a gender? God in the commonly understood sense of Creator-Protector-Destroyer, is non-existent and hence cannot have a gender. Does God have sexual organs? If God has gender, there must be sexual organs also. (As God does not exist, this question becomes absurd). In India, phallus worship is common. There is a mythical story which justifies the worship of Shiva's Phallus. Worship of female sex organs has disappeared over centuries. Hindus worship Goddesses, but do not refer to their sexual organs. Islam and Christianity seem to treat God as male, by calling "Father!". Then, a pertinent question, "Who the God's wife is!" is not discussed. According to some historians, Phallus worship originated in Crate, an island near Greece, in the Mediterranean. If God has a gender, there should be sexual intercourse? Indian book "Kumara Sambhavam" describes the sex act of Shiva and Parvati. Poet was Kalidasa. There was a circumstantial necessity. The progeny of the couple "Shanmukha or Kartikeeya" had to kill a demon called Taarakaasura. Now summarise? If we accept that there is a God with formula Creator-Protector-Destroyer, we have to concede: a) God is a hermophrodite; or b) there is a couple: God and Goddess or c) God undertook asexual reproduction by division of cells from his body or d) God created objects from VACUUM.